For so many people, the last decade has had many stressors. The global pandemic alone has been traumatic for many of us. Extreme weather events – the Nebraska floods in 2019, the tornados, the straight-line wind storms, the seemingly increasing hail, and the excessive cold in the winter – these, too, could be considered traumatic […]

Make an effort. Partners, find time to connect and have meaningful conversations. It is easy to become quickly overwhelmed with work, school projects, and family commitments. While these things can be positive in our lives, they can also extend beyond our comfort zones. When we don’t have time to have meaningful conversations with our partners, […]

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. I often find that people have great ideas but struggle to execute them and then feel a sense of disappointment. Sometimes, we can use the thought process of good, better, best to help us plan a date. Maybe the ideal date is too complicated to plan, tickets are […]

Families often create schemas or rules to establish expectations and procedures within their own unique dynamics. These schemas dictate the norms and values that each family holds dear. For example, some families prioritize eating dinner together at the table, while others may prefer to eat individually when schedules permit. Each family has its own interests and priorities – such as sports […]

In today’s busy world, we often feel burdened by self-judgment and the need to live up to impossible standards. To combat these negative feelings, we can practice self–compassion. Self–compassion is a kind and caring way of thinking that can improve our mental and physical health. Self–compassion means being kind, understanding, and accepting towards ourselves, especially when we are going through […]

Taking the first step to finding a therapist can be intimidating, especially if you don’t know what to expect. It’s natural to feel nervous or uncertain. Remember: Therapy should be a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Connecting with the right therapist is key. So if you don’t feel […]

Deciding that you would like to explore therapy is a big step for many people, and choosing a therapist can be a daunting task. Your experience can vary drastically from one therapist to another. While therapy providers typically have similar training experiences in school, each may later choose to focus on certain issues, populations, or […]

During major holidays that occur in the middle of the work week, we often underestimate the amount of time it takes for our bodies to recover from the festivities. Since the event has already passed, we cannot go back and change anything. However, we can focus on coping and taking care of ourselves today and […]